Mother in law has poison oak in her eyes.  I do not believe I will be able to persuade her to try boiling water, oatmeal compresses or acidic solutions.  She is suffering.  Is there any way to help her, considering her sensitive situation?  She is a stubborn old mule and believes the E.R. is only for people who are on fire.  I'd be very grateful for any info you may share.

           Thank you.  -James